“I wasn’t confident at school. I wasn’t paying attention at school and I couldn’t focus – a weakness, I’d say. But since I’ve been working, I’ve changed a lot. I’ve realised that I have a good work ethic, just getting into any job regardless of the difficulty and keeping rhythm with it. I think that’s my strength. I realised I could be quite quick with things and get things done very fast. I am a fast learner and I am fast to do things, that’d probably be my strength. I guess it all started when I was helping my dad with gardening, which turned into work ethic, getting on with things and not stopping until the job’s done.
My work ethic has been pretty important. I guess your ethic is how much effort you put into things, and it can be applied to a lot of other stuff in life. It’s the same with confidence, that goes into other areas too. Initiative, that’s not just things that you can use in the workplace, it’s everywhere you go in life.
I try and use initiative a lot at work. Working with my youth worker has helped me in a way. I’m being more assertive and trying to do things without being told. I just realised that no one wants to be at work a lot of the time. There are people who want to be there, but everyone wants to just go home, everyone wants to have a break or something. It’s about just making it enjoyable for everyone and realising that everyone’s on the same page, it’s about making it as easy for everyone to get on with it. Once you understand that, then it’s like a respect as well. People like to work around you more, which helps with just getting on with work.
My work ethic has helped me put some discipline into something, like when I’m doing things that I don’t want to do, but I do because I have to. By focussing on my strengths I’ve been able to get on with things. It’s helped me with finding a new flat – it’s an intimidating thing and I’d usually be like, “f*#k this”, but I was able to sort it out. My current place has been an unhealthy house to be in. The one I’m moving into is better for me. I’ve learnt the confidence to manage that, sort it out and communicate with my landlord and all that.
I’d say confidence helps me with social things a lot because I don’t really like to interact with new people a lot of the time. Confidence has helped me go into restaurants and cafes and just handing in a CV to some random person at the counter. That’s been something that I’ve always wanted to do, but I’d go to do it, get to the door and then walk away ‘cos I can’t do it. Now, in being able to do that, being able to talk to someone and advertise myself, like “this is me and I’m very keen”, literally shows them that I am keen.
I guess when you grow those strengths, it increases everything else. Your weaknesses get a little better as well. It goes hand in hand. What you do to one will affect the other in other areas too. I enrolled in a barista course today, it’s something I’ve wanted to do for a while. I want to get that finished. Then, I’d like to save up some money, get my restricted and a car, so I’m on the road to doing that.
It’s cool when you have something you’re passionate about and you’re learning.”
Approach 1 - Strengths based
Weaving with the two outcomes
Developing the whole person
Once the practitioner had built a positive relationship with James, they asked what strengths he would like to develop. They created opportunities to transfer his confidence into new areas in a safe and supported environment, and then eventually reduced support so James could undertake his tasks on his own. Initially, the practitioner had to consider how to create a safe space and the tools that can support this (e.g. humour/fun, compassion, good planning and communication).
Developing connected communities
The youth organisation wanted to enable opportunities where young people are positively integrated in the community by supporting him to lead volunteers and visitor groups in different activities.
Relevance for funders / policy makers
The opportunity James had to gain experiences with different groups in the community was important in building his own wellbeing as well as his sense of his own contribution to society. This shows how outcomes for the individual and the community are hard to separate.